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As a divorce attorney and a past serial dater, I have had the unique opportunity to view every facet of relationships between men and women from beginning to end. Like most men and women, I have entered relationships with the utmost optimism only to experience it fall apart along the way. Every day I encounter the end of marriages.
In my last article , I touched on infidelity as a major cause of divorce. As a woman with many single girlfriends, I have continuously shared the excitement when a friend met a new and interesting man only to learn later in the relationship that her new lover had lied about his single status. Often, women get caught up in the hot romance of a new relationship. If a married man who preys on unsuspecting single women is an expert in this despised behavior, it will take more time for the woman to catch on to the game he is playing.
Please note that although my practice is not gender-specific, I find that single men are not nearly as offended if they find out that their new lover is married. From professional and personal experience, men enjoy relationships with no attachment more than women.
In many instances, a female client often gets dumped by her lover once her lover realizes that she wants to get divorced in order to be with him. Paying for dinners, trips, and lingerie in cash is a way a married man may avoid the wife who inspects his receipts or the wife who writes checks for the bills each month. In our electronic society, most people no longer carry around cash, so if your new boyfriend always pays in cash beware especially if any of the s listed below also apply to your situation. If your new man habitually places severe restrictions on the times and places he can see you, either he is dating someone else or he is married.
A nice guy who is really interested in getting to know you will not have to be home by pm for that important business meeting in the morning. It is very easy for a married man who travels constantly with his work to lead a secret life. While I reiterate that not all traveling businessmen cheat on their wives, this particular lifestyle is very attractive to the man who flies passenger jets for a living or to the man who sells the very best of German engineering parts on three different continents.
It usually takes an unsuspecting woman months to find out that the traveling businessman with whom she has fallen in love is actually married. Secrecy is paramount to the man who is married but yet presents himself as being single. If your new lover routinely behaves this way in front of you, either he works in espionage or he is married. The age of cellular technology is all too convenient for married men posing as singles. He can be at home with his wife and then go out to his car to return your call moments later.
If this is evident, either your boyfriend does not view you as serious dating material or he is most certainly probably married. This is the only on my list that arises after a woman suspects her new boyfriend might be married.
It usually begins with the woman having a talk with her new man and questioning him about her suspicions. He replies that while he is technically married he is separated from his wife and has filed for divorce. He then explains that he was afraid that she would not have gone on a date with him if she knew he was still legally married.
She searches online and spends an entire day making phone calls to every superior court in the area. However, there is no open civil case listing her new lover as a plaintiff or a defendant anywhere. If this happens to you, all you can do is comfort her and assure her that you did not know the new man in your life was actually married to her. Then, I recommend you make one very important phone call afterward.
Mindy R. Check out her website for more info. This article was originally published at Huffington Post. Reprinted with permission from the author. in. YourTango Experts. Photo: getty. Mindy Smith. Subscribe to our newsletter. now for YourTango's trending articles , top expert advice and personal horoscopes delivered straight to your inbox each morning.
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