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You took time to grieve, heal, and move forward. But yet, why does seeing your ex with someone else make you feel heartbroken all over again? Now you're expected to separate yourself from them. And with social media, it's even harder to completely forget about your ex. Clinical psychologist Dr. Rachel Greenberg suggests taking notice of how you feel when you feel hurt about an ex moving on. Greenberg tells Bustle. According to dating and relationship experts, there are several reasons behind why it hurts — even if you have no intentions of getting back together.

Many people use rebounds relationships as a way to distract themselves from pain and to move on as quickly as possible. But according to April Davis , professional matchmaker and founder of LUMA - Luxury Matchmaking, jumping into another relationship right after you got out of one could mean that you haven't had time to fully heal from heartbreak. In some cases, the "pain" you feel when your ex moves on might not have anything to do with having lingering feelings for them.

It may just be your ego getting bruised. It makes them feel wanted. And seeing your ex with someone else can ruin the illusion you created for yourself. It's also human nature to compare yourself to the new person your ex is with, which can make you question yourself. Are they better looking? Better in bed? Do their personalities mesh better?

A Relationship Epiphany , tells Bustle, "One of the worst feelings is for some people to see their ex seemingly stepping up or doing better after a breakup. Your first love may not be the love of your life, but it's still hard to forget what you had with them. According to Davis, some people feel protective over their first loves long after the relationship is over.

Seeing your ex with someone else may trigger doubts and insecurities over how your partner truly felt about you in the relationship. A lack of jealousy or envy on the part of someone's ex can have a negative effect on some people. When you see a picture of your ex smiling with their new partner, it may lead you to question why they never looked as happy when they were with you. When you invest time and energy into trying to make a relationship work, it can make you feel like a complete failure when it doesn't. According to Dr. Caroline Madden, PhD , d marriage and family therapist, seeing your ex happy with someone else can be a reminder of that.

It's easy to forget why you broke up and place all the blame on yourself. In addition to making you feel like a failure, a breakup can also feel like a loss. But, in some cases, feeling hurt over seeing your ex with someone new could indicate that you still need a little more time to fully heal. Taking some time to clear out negative feelings towards your ex and your past relationship can help you fully heal and move forward with your current one.

Special moments are considered sacred for a reason. You want to feel like certain memories, places, or words said were meant for you and only you. After a breakup, there may be a small part of you that hopes you move on faster than your partner. This can happen if you have yet to find a new partner yourself.

Endings are hard and it is usually difficult to watch someone you love to move on with their life. But it's a completely common reaction. As Toni Falcone, Psy. Kate MacLean , resident dating expert at Plenty of Fish. A Relationship Epiphany. Toni Falcone, Psy. Heidi Krantz , certified dating and relationship coach. Rachel Greenberg , clinical psychologist. By Kristine Fellizar. Updated: June 3, Originally Published: Oct. See All Health Relationships Self.

She moved and i need to see you

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Why Seeing Your Ex Move On Hurts So Much